I'm not sure how much I can help because usually when I'm in the moment everything else fades away. However, these are some of the groups/songs that have gotten me going...
Enigma, Afghan Whigs, Depheche Mode (esp. Personal Jesus), some of Pulp, some Smashing Pumpkins (esp. Adore), Julee Cruise, Air, Poe (esp. Hey Pretty and Terrible Thought), Sneaker Pimps (esp. Six Feet Underground), and more that I can't think of right now.
As long as it has a decent rhythm and I can move my hips to it, it's good to go!
