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You know there comes that time when parents stop worrying about you meeting the wrong person and begin worrying about you meeting the right one. This will eventually work itself out. I think a talk with your Mom will help. You need to make sure that she doesn't try to give the standard "No, I don't know what you're talkng about, I do like her, honest." This is not true feelings, so be prepared to back it up with the facts you have stated here. Let her know that you have noticed it and it is making you feel uncomfortable. You need to make sure to reiterate to her that this attitude toward your girlfriend will not make the two of you break up, in fact I have seen cases where it actually drives the two closer, so you Mom had better get used to the idea of you being with her. Especially if you Mom wants to spend anytime with you at all, since new relationship people tend to spend a lot of time together.
I had a similar scenario when I was dating my wife. My mother and she get along now, they're not the best of friends or anything, but they are on speaking terms, hey, it's a start right.
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