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I learned to masterbate pretty early on in life. It is a shame that it is looked upon many females as gross. It is a completely natural thing. The only thing that I can figure about your fear is it a religious thing or a fear implanted in your head due to our soceity strange view on the exploration of our own bodies.
If you do not know your own body and how to make it feel pleasure how are you going to be comfortable letting anyone else do it for you? The first time I had an orgasm it was with myself. The first time I had a g-spot orgasm was with myself and a vibrator. I would never know how to show a guy how to do it for me if I did not know exactly how to do it.
My suggestion is get a mirror and look at your genitalia and know what it looks like and get used to touching it not necessarily masterbating. Know where your clitoris is, feel where your g-spot is (inside the upper wall of the vagina it feels like a walnut) and then move on from there.
Sexual freedom is bliss but you have to be able to put all your fears aside to achieve it.
Jenni
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