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Originally Posted by Kalnaur
From the short amount I've read, you broadcasted the fact that there would be little or no consequence for his actions. Not wanting to be seen,i.e. liking the invisibility factor should always be outweighed by personal preservation. Fight, not flight (or in this case, reporting the little freak to the owner) is the appropriate response.
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Trying to be invisible attracts attention? I'm not sure how that could work.
As it turns out, reporting him would have produced little consequence.
What doesn't make sense to me is that if he found me attractive, why do something that is likely to produce only a negative result? In this case, I left the store. Others might have hit him. If what some have been saying about bullies here is true, maybe he wanted me to hit him so that he'd have an excuse to hurt me.
If he found me attractive, and it's hard to tell from his behavior, what he did was the worst possible thing he could have done
for him. I left the store. He drove me away. Maybe he saw me as invading his turf, and wanted me to leave?
It's still confusing. Maybe I should just go with Sissy's explanation of why people do things like this. "Some people are jerks. The act like jerks because that's what they are. You can't change or predict them, all you can do is protect yourself. Don't expect them to act in a reasonable way or even do what is best for themselves. Assholes act that way because they enjoy it. It isn't reasonable or logical, it's just the way it is."
Gilda