From what I can tell, she believes you'll leave her side if she confirms that you’re in "the friend zone". And since she appears to like your company, she has no incentive in admitting on which ladder you’re on.
And the way I see it, all the energy and hope and struggling you’re putting into this relationship, can be put to better use with someone who would like a romantic relationship with you.
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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