I read your letter in the Literature Forum. I haven't had to go through what you did in that, but I did have a breakup with an ex 3 years ago, but the thing that sucked is there was no closure, no explaination from her as to why at all. Even when I did see her around until she moved it was the cold shoulder treatment.
I would have liked to get an explaination and what not, for thepurpose of closure. The worst part is I got dumped by her after I flew to out to see her while she was away for the summer coaching soccer at a camp. Picked her up only to have her say see ya on the way to the hotel I was staying at.
I had a girlfriend (friend) at hte time tell me she didn't owe me an explaination. I think that she did. Oh well, that one was easy to get over compared to this and I acutally dated that girl. :/ Odd.....
Anyway I don't know how I would have reacted to the situation you were in, hope I never have to deal with that. But I'm sure I wil, don't we all.
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