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Errr - you cant *ask* her if you're in the 'friends zone' and expect a straight answer. If you are in the 'friends zone' then she considers you a friend, and as a friend she doesnt want to hurt your feelings or lose your friendship. So of course she's going to tell you that you're not - you've made an issue of it by asking twice so she knows that you would have a problem with it. She's stringing you along, probably even unintentionally just because shes worried about hurting your feelings.
Personally I've never played these dumb mind-games, but the mind-games handbook says to back off for a while and see what she does. Subtly (very!!) making her aware that you're persuing women besides her may help as well. She may feel that you are being needy by contacting her so much. She also probably feels very much in control of the situation because you've placed the ball in her court and you continually remind her that it's in her court. You need to step up and take some control back... if she's interested, she might show it if she realizes that you're starting to move on and might not be hers if she doesnt do something quick.
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