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My first wife ....waited for Marriage, or close enough to it (six months before) , she was 26 and so was I. It was a "pleasant" enough relationship sexually for a few years , then she decided (for religious reasons) that sex was a Duty, and not a loving act. Once she told me that, we never made love(or had sex) again...we were divorced within a year.
My point is, I do find it likely that if she had experienced sex before this relationship, things would have been different. Either she would have seen it was not for her, and we would have never married. Or she would have a better understanding (in my opinion) of what sex can be, allowing the frigid nature of our last year to have never occured. Either way, it would have been far better for us both.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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