I second what MrSelfDetruct said. You cannot look at a situation and leave whether or not you're victimized up to the person who may or may not decide to victimize you. People are not nice--why leave that decision in their hands? If you know going into any situation that no one is going to fuck with you beyond a certain point or it's on, then people won't push that line. If you have no line, they will see that and take as much as you will give them.
It may not be in your personality to be aggressive, but don't you feel indignant when someone tries to compromise your personal space like that? Fuck the consequences--you need to protect your integrity and peace of mind and if someone is seriously jeopardizing that...they had it coming.
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