I hold grudges in extreme situations. Like if " my friend puches me in the face" or my girlfriend cheats on me," or " I get shot by somebody." Something extreme. The last one never happened.
Small things like "getting stood up," or "someone breaks my $75 glass water bong," I can forgive.
Would I forgive this kid for smashing my face and ruining my life?
HELL NO! Little punk ass! Lock him up for twenty-five years. Bastard. Thats horrible. No way, I could never forgive him. This woman is a saint for forgiving that asshole.