I would forgive, eventually...however, not for his sake, but my own. Forgiveness does not excuse one from culpability. It merely ends the resentment of the offended party. I would say it is a crucial step in any healing process.
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The sad thing is... as you get older you come to realize that you don't so much pilot your life, as you just try to hold on, in a screaming, defiant ball of white-knuckle anxious fury
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