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well, divorces can take years to go through. and even she is the one who wanted and initiated the divorce and her husband was a complete dirtbag--she's still going to have issues to work through.
any chance on her going back to him? as in, if he did a complete turnaround and became everything she so desperately wanted him to be while they were married--would she take him back? unrealistic i know, but this is a pretty good way to determine how she feels about him. sometimes the heated emotions that lead to divorce mask what people still really feel. she may say she hates his guts and hopes he rots in hell, but that emotion might be coming from feeling hurt and if he did the appropriate make-up actions, she'd forgive and they'd live happily ever after.
you the first guy she's seen since seperating from her husband? how long were they married/together? did she date much before meeting him? do you know why they are getting divorced and will that have any impact on your relationship with her?
kudos to you for taking the time to think through this. i've seen this type of situation work out well and i've seen it end very nasty. which way it goes, depends on a ton of factors. if she has unrealistic expectations for a relationship and that is why she's getting divorced, or she's on the rebound--bad news for you (unless you just enjoy that sort of baggage). if she's over him and worked through her own issues regarding the divorce, then you may end up having a perfectly wonderful relationship with this woman.
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