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Well, things are a little different from the perspective of a long-distance relationship. Ktspktsp and I have been apart for over 2 months and it's a real drag when you haven't seen or touched that person in so long. Cyber and phone sex are all we get, when we actually have the technology available for communication (which wasn't there for weeks at a time, when I was in Zambia).
And yeah, it can get old, but until we are together again, what can we do? It's healthy to think sexual thoughts about your partner when they are far away, and if cyber or phone sex helps, why not? My only concern is when it becomes the topic of every conversation (or when other topics don't get enough attention), so we have to be careful with that sometimes. It is hard sometimes to talk about sex all the time but not be able to act on it, so I guess sometimes I'd just rather not. I dunno. Depends on the couple.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
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