Hey gang, did some digging and here's a sample of what I found:
Review of Adult Friend Finder:
http://www.whichdatingsite.com/seere...de=129&&cat=-1
"Tough Male:Female ratio, but do-able
Reviewer: Dr. Adonis from San Francisco, CA, 4 Mar 2005
I've been a Gold member of AFF for about 6 weeks now, and the following are my statistics.
Emails sent: 268
Emails received: 68
Girls contacted: 200
Girls with returned email contact: 35
Girls I've IM'ed with or had continued contact: 15
Girls I've met in person: 5
Girls I've actually taken on a date: 5
Girls I've had sex with: 3
Girls I continue to have sex with (and carry on a friendship): 2
Total hours wasted on the site: Circa 100.
Anyhow, I know someone who works there, and she tells me there is a 15:1 M/F ratio. The 15, of course are all men who pay about $20 per month. So, just like the real world, women have their picks. If you are persistent, a good writer and have a nice picture, your odds as a man go way up. But don't get me wrong, it's very difficult.
Certainly a much better deal than Ashley-Madison (0 girls, 55 dollars) or Philanderer's International (1 girl, 18 dollars).
Good Luck."
And here's a freeby: There's a site called
www.AmIHotorNot.com that rates user photos on a scale of 1-10. Put your favorite pics of yourself on there, and use the best ones for your online personals