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Originally Posted by ohh_shesus
I am not sure if it is safe to call it the opposite of soulmate, but I do believe that some people bring out the worst in others. Not sure if it is a personality thing or a pheromone thing, but something does exist in that area.
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Throughout my life there have been people that have crossed my path that have definitely brought out the worst in me. I can think of one example recently: an old acquaintance from high school whom I never really liked (she was the kind of girl who would abandon you the instant someone she perceived to be more popular walked in the room) kept trying to "friend" me on MySpace. I kept saying no, because in my mind we were never really friends in high school and I'm certainly not going to start being friends with her now. Finally, she messaged me and said, "Don't you remember who I am?" Of course I remember who you are, we stood next to each other in choir for four years, and I still didn't like you at the end of it. So I replied, "No, I'm sorry, I don't remember you, we must not have been friends." She sent a message back saying I should look her up in the yearbook. Suffice it to say, the attempts to be my friend have stopped. Sure, I was a bitch about it, and a friend of mine said I should "give her a second chance, because people change." Bullshit. Whatever annoyed me about her then is likely to still annoy me now. There are some people I just don't like--and she was always one of them.