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HA! Mal has an excellent point. I'd forgotten the non-sexual things (seeing as this is the Sexuality forum, not Living.)
But I'll just quickly add that I will not clean up his mess. This is something we're gonna have to deal with when we live together again, but I just won't do it (and he wouldn't let me, I think). We have taken turns surprising each other by cleaning up various little areas (e.g. bathtub, laundry, etc), but those things are reciprocal. Actual living space is something else. That's just something you have to learn how to do on an individual basis before living with someone (and I am working on my own living space, too, by the way).
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
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