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Originally Posted by minyn
1. listen. and when you do, genuinely care. create a response, create a question, we want you to make us think and show you are doing the same. real interest in our lives is amazing.
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5. The power of non-sexual touch is amazing. our shoulders, back, and those little and often underappreciated places on our bodies are unnoticed and when they are given attention, it makes the hair on us stand up and makes us notice
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I very much agree with these two points. Genuine curiousity and interest, demonstrated by precise questions that show you are listening and care about the details. I find it incredibly sexy and makes me want to fuck the questioner almost immediately... I feel attractive, interesting, smart, and sexy all at once.
Same goes for the second point... when my bf kisses my forehead gently, just standing on the street or something, it turns me on so much more than a deliberately sexual touch. Reaching for my ass or crotch might be playful, but it won't get me in bed like a few simple, caring touches/kisses will.
Anything else?... just BE an interesting person yourself. Be confident, or at least be honest about how dorky and goofy you can be. I love both of those characteristics at different times, in my bf.
