One of my other chums turned 18, so he wanted to go out to the club and celebrate....
So 2 of my male friends, along with his [not the b-day boy] g/f and her friend, and I went down to the club. It was our first time going to this place and my first time ever going to a club like this.
First off, both of my 2 other buddies weren't let in - one wore [excessively, ] baggy clothes and the other sported a plain white t-shirt [non-collared]. They decided to run back home and change clothes.
As Chickentribs and Jinnkai described, there were TONS of 'little boys' [their for their insecurity
] who were constantly stalking the sidelines and watching the 'loose' women grind upon each other on top of the bar; and try to find a girl to dance with. There were a few who just randomly came up to the 2 fellow girls I came with and started grinding with them, without any initial contact before that [a bit strange for me.]
Then came the 'hot body' contest - which the girl closest to flaunting her ASSets to the guys won [on top of the bar]. Shortly after the camera cell phone pix were taken by the boys, a few middle-aged [30's-40's] men were leaving - which disturbed me a bit to see that demographic there....
As for myself, I tried to 'smile and establish eye contact' and ask to dance method, which led me in a bunch of rejections, they're written off. I danced a bit with the 2 girls that I came with and the other guys didn't end up coming back, as by the time they returned with the clothes, the club was to close in 15 mins....
I still had a fun time - and remembering that hooking up shouldn't be the main reason to go - [having fun amongst yourself with your friends dancing and hanging out is] - meeting a girl is just a 'plus.'
After experiencing this and a few house parties, the latter appears to give much more attractive options for me in the coming months on campus.....
catcha back on the flipside,
will.