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I think you should say it whenever you truly feel it. In my last relationship I think it took us about three months before we were ready for it.
If I was in love with a person and it had been close to a year and they still hadn't said "I love you" then I'd have to wonder if they ever would. We'd probably talk about it and if he wasn't even close, then I would start looking for someone who could love me back.
I try to hold back on saying it until the other person has already said it. I don't want to scare the guy away if he thinks it might be too soon and I don't want to put myself out there and get rejected. I think when two people are in a relationship for a period of time, they begin to understand where each other are at in the relationship as far as love goes.
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