although some of my friends say "god , i cant believe i lost my virginity to that guy. i totally should have waited", i am ok with the fact that i lost my viriginity to someone that i didnt marry. sure it sucks to be in relationships that you are both emotionally and physically invested in and then have them fall apart, but i chalk it up to the learning process. i am so happy that i did have the experiences because it lets me know that what i have right now is truly special.
on the flip side, i have 2-3 friends waiting until marriage. i think thats great and totally support them. if you dont want to have sex, don't have it. if you want to, go for it! ultimately its up to your judgement what you can and can't handle.
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