I like it when they make a move, but I really enjoy making the first move too. With Quadro, it was definitely me. And he didn't mind at all.
It's changing... but listen, it takes some balls to make the first move. It's hard on males to do that, it leaves you so vulnerable. What makes you think women are interested in experiencing that vulnerability and possible rejection? We have the sexual power most of the time, and most of us enjoy that!
Ah... memories...