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raeanna74 · 08-12-2005, 11:25 AM

Brother - what is the point??

I know it might sound stupid coming from someone who enjoys orgies and swinger clubs. Some of the others have voiced some of my questions already...
Why pay to just cuddle?
How do you enjoy just being cuddled by a stranger? - If he's a hottie I'd be so turned on that I'd want way more than a cuddle?

It seems like this group of people are pretending to be more liberated in their thinking while still keeping so many rules. The palm reader getting stared at for breaking a rule?? At swinger clubs, if I don't want to be touched by a guy I just excuse myself or say 'no thankyou' and I don't get offended by a single swat. For goodness sake - athletes swat each other all the time. Who cares? It just appears to me like a bunch of posers. If this was a doorway to getting into swinging I think hubby and I would probably avoid these groups. They seem a bit too stuffed with their 'rules' and CUDDLING.

I know I sound negative - rules at a swinger club are simple and clear. Each person is responsible for drawing their OWN lines. The rule is "No means no." It's simple and lets people enjoy themselves and show respect for each other at the same time.

08-12-2005, 11:25 AM	#9 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Brother - what is the point?? I know it might sound stupid coming from someone who enjoys orgies and swinger clubs. Some of the others have voiced some of my questions already... Why pay to just cuddle? How do you enjoy just being cuddled by a stranger? - If he's a hottie I'd be so turned on that I'd want way more than a cuddle? It seems like this group of people are pretending to be more liberated in their thinking while still keeping so many rules. The palm reader getting stared at for breaking a rule?? At swinger clubs, if I don't want to be touched by a guy I just excuse myself or say 'no thankyou' and I don't get offended by a single swat. For goodness sake - athletes swat each other all the time. Who cares? It just appears to me like a bunch of posers. If this was a doorway to getting into swinging I think hubby and I would probably avoid these groups. They seem a bit too stuffed with their 'rules' and CUDDLING. I know I sound negative - rules at a swinger club are simple and clear. Each person is responsible for drawing their OWN lines. The rule is "No means no." It's simple and lets people enjoy themselves and show respect for each other at the same time. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.