Analog, you're saying her sister should ignore what's happening? That's a very strange attitude to me. Do you have siblings? Whether the twit is a minor or 80yrs old matters not. As a spouse, I'd be backing and suggesting whatever I'm able. Sure, there are limits. I won't quit my job. It may not be received well, and there's always a time to let the girl/woman work on herself. But people often do need help. Even if it's just the message that people are there if/when she wants them.
Get engaged. Society is full of otherwise wonderful folk sitting on the sidelines.
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There are a vast number of people who are uninformed and heavily propagandized, but fundamentally decent. The propaganda that inundates them is effective when unchallenged, but much of it goes only skin deep. If they can be brought to raise questions and apply their decent instincts and basic intelligence, many people quickly escape the confines of the doctrinal system and are willing to do something to help others who are really suffering and oppressed." -Manufacturing Consent: Noam Chomsky and the Media, p. 195
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