Yeah, she still lives at home with her parents... Doesn't even have a job, either, which makes me wonder how she was planning on paying court costs and such. She's basically been babied her entire life... Trust me, if she were out on her own and supporting herself, I wouldn't have thought twice about shutting up about it.
I don't really get the whole "none of your business" thing. Granted, I'm not a real member of the family, but it's just plain wrong to lie to family members like that. If I know about it and don't tell, I'm no better than the ones keeping the secrets. The fact that each party knows, but the other party doesn't know they know is just muddying the waters. At this point, all I'm really looking for is some confirmation that I'm not completely crazy for thinking they're all crazy.
