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I met my husband online in '98...still with him. If I recall correctly, his ad started something like "looking for that gypsy lady..." It was cool that we chatted/emailed for a while before talking on the phone (he was in WA and I in KY) and even longer before we met in person. I did not try to impress him (well, too much anyway, LOL) and neither did he...just pretty casual.
The number ONE reason why I kept chattin with him is that he NEVER got too personal and "intimate" ...hell, we didnt know each other really! He was always polite and never insisted on my details (exact location/number...). If hed been a cyber freak or too nosy... I would have cut off the contact asap!
Thats my suggestion to start IF you are determined to use the web as a resource...dont be in a hurry...friendly chat first.
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