|
In a perfect world, everyone would have great sexual education before they got married. They'd be married to the perfect person, and would be able to talk freely and maturely about any issue between them. Sex would come naturally, as they were so in love and it was the cumulative act of expressing this love. There would be no incompatable libidos, and everyone would have an orgasm (or seven) every time.
This is not a perfect world.
If you want to "save yourself for marriage" then fine, just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons. I lost my virginity because I didn't want to be a virgin when I went to college. REALLY BAD IDEA. Lost it to a guy that already had a kid. REALLY REALLY BAD IDEA. And the guy concieved the kid when he was 15 and high. REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD IDEA. And he later got kicked out of college. REALLY REALLY REALLY oh well you get what I'm saying. So, perhaps we should all do our younger friends a favor when they ask "What's sex like?" and pass on that it can be the greatest thing ever, and it can be a source of regret that you carry around like a boulder in a sack.
__________________
Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's
She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox
She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus
In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi
|