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Infidelity. If my wife cheated on me I would leave. There is no reason for that sort of betrayal. Another would be major changes in life goals. For instance my wife has a daughter and I knew going in I would have to give up a lot of my lifestyle so this girl could live in a suburban home and go to a good school. However it was agreed before we got married that once she graduated high school we could move to a much larger variety of areas. If my wife for instance changed her mind and wanted to stay here in suburban Texas hell, after much pleading and negotiation I would have to leave. I love my wife but Texas will eventually kill me. Another would be lack of trying. Most problems in a marriage I think can be fixed with time, understanding, and effort. Some problems you forgive, let go or live with. Other propblems you have to fix. Regardless it takes effort and compromise. When those things are gone so am I.
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Thousands of Monkeys, all screaming at once. Pulling God's finger.
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