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Old 08-11-2005, 09:35 AM   #19 (permalink)
maleficent
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I personally don't think there is anything wrong with spanking a child... Cause and effect is learned early-- child does something wrong - there are consequences... If that consequence is a swat on the fanny then so be it... i don't think that smacking a kid til they are black and blue is effective but consequenses are important. it's something adults deal with every single day... Your behavior has a consequence, bad behavior has different consequences.

This child has never been taught consequences, he's been catered to and probably spoiled rotten, i couldn't quite tell what momma's problem was but she clearly wasn't parent of the year material. I'm not sure that she ever learned consequences either -- because otherwise she wouldn't be in the position with her child t hat she is now - -basically (opinion formed from a 3 minute recording) he is a child she does not know
how to control.
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