Infidelity is probably among one of my main reasons for breaking off a relationship. I would have to also agree that compatability is a big thing. Moving forward and being at a different place in my life than my ex was a major factor in our break-up.
I have found in few relationships my friends have had that a lot of the time one person in the relationship (usually the guy...) seems to get "comfortable" or something and just gives up on the relationship. I've been in this position before as well, giving and trying to make things work, taking back a boyfriend that said he wanted to make things work and was going to try... but didn't. That, would also be a relationship breaker for me. To basically be the only "giver" and be taken advantage of because of it. I can only give someone so many chances....
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