I met my wife online back in 97 when the internet dating thing wasn't more than just a message board or two.
I asked my wife one day why it was that she instant messaged me outta the blue, this is what she said, 'I needed someone to talk to, and girls think your weird if other women message them, so I IMed every single guy online from Washington."
Yup, no picture on my profile or profound statement made one bit of difference, it was just being in the right place at the right time. Its alot like real life, you might bump into the woman of your dreams, but she needs to be looking for the man of her dreams or nothing you do or say will work.
Just keep trying, you are bound to get some nibbles on the line, and after you do keep casting it out there.
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