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Originally Posted by pan6467
Some very good advice, thanks all.
She initiated the divorce moved out on me a week after my birthday last year.
I jumped through every hoop to try to get her back and none of them worked, I gave up and moved on.
Yes, I have had sex since her, I just worry about her feelings and so I say no. The marriage is over, I have moved on, but I don't want to hurt her ...... after all the divorce is not yet final until Aug. 18th's court gavel falls on the dissolution.
The dog is fine, and the key I still don't know where it is.
My honest gut feeling is right before the court date she will try to postpone for some reason. Maybe deep down I'd like her to so I can say no, the date is the date.... I have moved on and to be honest she's a lousy friend, it's all her and when she wants things there's never any give and take.... lol just like when we were married.
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Change your locks.
If you're intent on staying friends with this woman, you need to establish boundaries (emotional, physical, and mental) and state them clearly to her. Otherwise, she'll fall into a continuous cycle of these calling games until she's found someone else.