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I think at the end of the day. It's your wedding. If you feel unappreciated and used then I would say do what makes you feel most comfortable. This woman needs a lot more help than you are going to be able to give her so I think if you put it in the mindset that it would be less for her to deal with, and offer to pay for her dress so that way she can put that money towards her debt or the baby, who knows she may like that idea better. You never know but what you do know is what you want and this day is very important for you to not feel 100% comfortable and happy with who is in your wedding.
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