Ideally both partners will enjoy the big O. I have to admit that I am one of those type that gets off very quickly - I'm good to go again after that but I usually come before my guy. I still want to have him cum though - but if he doesn't I don't feel I "failed" in some way. I try to please him because I want him to feel as good as I do but if he doesn't cum I don't perceive it as some self-esteem thing or that we've done something wrong.
If I cum and I'm done....I'll do whatever it takes to make my honey happy. If he's good with just me being complete - then more power to him. I'll just try that much harder next time to rock his world!
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You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!
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