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i wouldn't contact them again either, for the same reasons shanifaye already mentioned.
and while i adore the idea of a personals ad (always wanted to try one, doubt i'd ever actually go through with it though), my suggestion is to meet women as you meet other people. keep your ads up, but i'm sure you do something that allows for interaction with people outside of work.
do you hang out online? girls do too! we are in forums, chat rooms, we play online games--all great places to meet people. have any hobbies? if there is something you love doing, there's bound to be some sort of club for it. i really think a person's best shot at finding someone to start a relationship with (even if it never gets beyond friendship) is to have some sort of starting point. if you meet while doing something you both enjoy (or while trying something new that you both end up hating!) then you are already off to a better start than if you met at a bar because at least you have something in common aside from a desire to drink and get laid (not the strongest foundations for a relationship).
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