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I didn't start masturbating properly until I was 22. Meaning, I hardly ever touched myself down there unless I was bathing. I was still a virgin then and had become really horny due to all my friends having sex, so I wanted to see how things were done. I started by just playing around, seeing how things felt and worked... just using the hands. There's no wrong way to masturbate! It took me a while before I learned how to orgasm from my own hands, but I really enjoyed taking my time and exploring myself after so many years.
Are you from a religious background? That was part of my issue at first. Otherwise, let us know something about your fears, and maybe we can help you better.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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