It might not be a part of your sexuality. Dr. Drew has mentioned that this sort of thing happens to some women. They need someone there. There's nothing wrong with these people. They may also be the few gals that say the messager is for there back and mean it 
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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