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Originally Posted by Acetylene
Wrong. You will BECOME attracted to someone if you fall in love with them. Beauty is a false and temporary thing, and your own desires will change over time.
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Och... So true. As long as you do fall in love. Unfortunately, sometimes (often due to physical appearance) you trip and stumble and get stuck falling in like.
Can you use these girls you're not attracted to but have cool personalities to build up your friend base? Not "use" per se, but I'm sure y'all know what I mean. Sometimes it helps. Friendship without the relationship level pressure of feeling obligated to date, spend time together. You can enjoy each other's company without as much stress. And see where it goes from there. I've been on the receiving end of the "I'm just not physically attracted to you, but you have a great personality". But we're still friends and it's actually turned out to be a very good support. Because I have a
great personality.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand