Wrong. You will BECOME attracted to someone if you fall in love with them. Beauty is a false and temporary thing, and your own desires will change over time.
If the reason why you find someone unattractive is bad clothing and tangled hair, then that is an even worse reason to reject them as "not girlfriend material", because these things are even more temporary. If, once you are close to them, you express delight whenever she wears anything you like, and fawn on her right after a bath, she'll get the hint and start dressing nicely more often.
Don't get me wrong, if someone is totally repuslive then don't try to force it. But take a good, hard look at someone before you reject them, and make sure you aren't basing a life-changing decision on a bad hair day!
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