Originally Posted by fredweena

Sometimes it's as simple as "Dad, I love you and I'll see you later" as the act of moving actually begins. When you get into the deep details after a letter like that, you often open the door for bargaining. And it becomes even more painful as the other person can begin to feel some hope that you'll stay. Those issues can be rehashed after the move has taken place. It's hard and I wish you luck.