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Love is blinding. That's the beauty and the curse of it. We can all see your boyfriend for his ills much more than you can, but there are many things you know about him that we do not. My numbers as far as sex goes are low, but I'm only 19 so that doesn't matter. However, my numbers in relationships are high (7) compared to my lover's 1. This sometimes makes things harder, since most of my former exs are close friends of mine now, one being my best friend, as well as the lead singer of my band. My past girlfriend couldn't get past that, and I let her go. What you need to decide is, is he the type to filter all who you fraternize with? Will you lose good friends in the process? Despite the fact that you will be extremely close with anyone you love and marry, good friends are many times not worth sacrificing, as the difference between and lover and a best friend at most times in the younger age is just sex and some other romantics. I recommend that you Seriously consider the pressure he is putting you through, but don't necessarily dump him all too soon. Be sure about it.
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