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What is it about her sexual history that bothers you so much? The number? The type of people? Do you think she compares you to others? I think the most important thing is figuring out WHAT about it bothers you.
Consider how you would feel if she were as bothered by your history. What would you say to her? How would you rationalize the situation to her?
I've put my husband in the opposite position - he is my first and only. I've asked him how that position makes him feel and he has said that he wonders about my naive sexual nature. Don't get me wrong. I love trying things and I am a very sexual person, but he wonders what I would have been like with a few notches on my belt. As for my feelings as only having had one man - I regret it to the depth of my core. But I digress, this isn't about me...
...figure out why you are bothered. Maybe you need reassurance from her or maybe you just need to reason yourself through it. Keep us posted. I'm very interested in your thoughts about it.
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Maybe it was over when she chucked me out the Rover at full speed.
Maybe Maybe...
~a-Ha
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