Hubby and I kindof go through phases. There are a LOT of daily things that get in the way of sex. Kids are at the top of the list. Health problems get in the way almost more often than some people who aren't in a relationship may realize. Too tired, achy, worked too hard, sore muscles, colds, flu, injuries, childbirth (this takes about a month for some people to get back from), and so many other things. A key though is a desire for physical intimacy of some sort. Intimacy that is purely animal animal sexuality takes a lot of physical stamina at times. Sometimes there is just a need to cuddle. Hubby and I have been needing a lot of that lately and fairly often lately that's all it is. There are other times we do enjoy sex and we do often but there are times when you NEED something else instead. There is really no SET time that it's normal to go without sex. I would feel like something was missing if hubby and I didn't snuggle, kiss, or hug some throughout the day. We can go for a week without sex but if we go a day without giving a hug or kiss then SOMEBODY is gonna say "What's wrong?'
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