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maleficent · 08-04-2005, 04:57 PM

There's an old saying... not sure who said it - but I'm saying it now... you can't be happy wiht someone else, until you can be happy by yourself...

Sounds like she needs to figure out who she is and what she wants before she can really have a successful relationship...

It's not up to you to make her happy, she's gotta find that within herself, and maybe staying away from her for a while would be the best thing for her... and you... You know what you want and are going after it... if that involves your soon to be ex in the long run... then so be it - but right now --

to use another old phrase...

if you love somoene -- set it free - -if it comes back it's yours, if not, it was not meant to be.

08-04-2005, 04:57 PM	#9 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	There's an old saying... not sure who said it - but I'm saying it now... you can't be happy wiht someone else, until you can be happy by yourself... Sounds like she needs to figure out who she is and what she wants before she can really have a successful relationship... It's not up to you to make her happy, she's gotta find that within herself, and maybe staying away from her for a while would be the best thing for her... and you... You know what you want and are going after it... if that involves your soon to be ex in the long run... then so be it - but right now -- to use another old phrase... if you love somoene -- set it free - -if it comes back it's yours, if not, it was not meant to be. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.