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Old 08-04-2005, 10:40 AM   #1 (permalink)
Drider_it
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dreading a upcoming answer? solution

after pouring over most the threads here.. my advice.. don't dwel on it.. just do it.

90% of your time is spend dwelling on what the answer will be. your there pouring over every possible outcome, when it comes down to it.. its a yes or no.

puff up get it off your chest and just do it.

sure it might end up the worst case scenario but hey, you'll feel better knowing the answer.

"should i ask *instert person or persons name(s) here* about *insert wanted end result here*?"

it all comes down to choice.. make it.. deal with it. If you cant, help is always there. there is a kick'n family of people here to help you overcome or give you advice to seek that help to over come. hell we love everyone here, else we wouldn't hang out posting right?

unless your held at gun point, no would probally be a bad answer. but most the time dealing with heart felt questions such as love and whatnot. no one died cuz they said no.

and besides.. it might hurt now or years later but you'll realize someday.. im glad they said no.. if they didnt say no you might have missed out on someone else you will end up giving your heart or friendship to.

I've been through that one.. i sit back and realize, I didn't really know that person at all.. and I'm glad they said no.. haha quite a few told me no, then I met my wife and looking back.. no was the best thing that ever happend to me. with out no, i wouldn't have my 3 wonderful yet trying kids in my life.

Think of it as a rough life lesson. Don't let it harden your heart, it will teach you patience. and help teach you an understanding to look deeper into another being's personality and make up. The is no excuse for shallow probeing. You must know a person before making a heartfelt discesion that will alter your future forever.

i would get it up and out than to sit there imagining what the other person would say to me.

bluntly its like waking up in the morning and having to go to the bathroom.. sure your comfortable in bed and you dont want to get up.. but it keeps building up until you have no choice.. then you jump up and hope you make it.

had you went when you frist realized you had to go, you would feel so much better having put that behind you...

strange thought there but true.
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