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I am not sure if I believe in soul mates or not, but I think it's very easy to use the term liberally.
For instance, when you first meet someone, you think they are great, and everything seems to "click" initially. They might feel the same way, but it's impossible to know this, as they might not feel the same connection you do.
I think true soul mates aren't aware of their connection until a fair amount of time has passed. There are so many factors involved with meeting a potential "soul mate" early on, that I think it makes it easy to abuse the term.
It also varies depending on the person and their situation. I think people desperate for love are going to find a "soul mate" much easier than someone who is content being single. Soul mate is a nice term, and it seemingly gives everyone hope that they will find Miss Right, get the house in the good neighborhood, and raise a few kids, when realistically, things won't go that smoothly.
Also, there are so many people out there that I don't think anyone finds their "best" match; and instead settle for "less," which can still result in a superb relationship.
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