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Originally Posted by Seaver
Everyone assumes just because the man starts the true "actions" that the woman just sits there and waits for it to happen.
Go out to a party and actually watch, the women know within 30seconds who they like and who they dont. THEY make the decision long before the man approaches. She'll give tons of non-verbal cues to let them know who she's interested in. While the exception of the case where she simply didnt see him does take place, this is very rare.
The WOMAN makes the first move by simply looking longer at a man she likes. She just waits for him to come over because lets face it... with a hot girl there's another dozen or so guys that are waiting to talk to her, why does she need to go to you?
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I disagree, because every woman is advertising. Advertisement isn't a move. Women can advertise, but they can't choose who comes to them. They can encourage, but ultimately, they can only choose from the approachers.
A man's attractiveness is based primarily on his actions; women, on their looks.
When you make the first move, it shows you are unafraid to get what you want, even if you fail.