Why don't you just talk to him about it?
I felt uncomfortable about hubby looking at pics at first and about him fantacising about his highschool crush. I told him that I felt like I could never compare to those other women and was afraid he enjoyed their pictures more than actually having sex with me. His answer settled all my fears. Don't attack but tell him how it makes you 'feel'. Hubby's reply was (cliff notes version) - That I could never compare to the fantasy and to the "fixed" photos he looked at. That Nothing could be the real thing. That the fantasy about his crush somewhat was enticing because of it's being "forbidden" in that it will never happen.
I really doubt he wants to cheat on you, even with a former playmate. If you talk to him about your discomfort it will help your relationship and probably calm your worries better than anything we can say here.
Good Luck.
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