While most of the women who I've shared sex with have been multiorgasmic, the one I've been with for the last 20+ years has it in her head that she only needs or deserves one orgasm per day. That is no matter if it's during the same session or multiiple sessions. I have only managed to get her off more than once in a day maybe a dozen times in over 20 years. Usually the extra's were during our first session of any given day.
So, it's become a lot easier on my ego to just let her give me a handjob rather than go through the motions and her not get off. She seems to enjoy giving to me by hand and it works for us I guess.
Looking at the numbers in the poll here I'm not surprised that 90% of the guys do want their partners to get off.
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