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Originally Posted by maleficent
Flirting can get really annoying at times because it does get in the way of actually getting to know a person.... It's completely superficial... and it's a good way of hiding behind yourself.
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A lot of the time this is how I see flirting... maybe I'm broken???
I think
Anxst is also correct in saying that "It really all comes down to trust and intentions." Often I find myself looking for the 'intentions' behind the flirting... I need to be able to trust the intentions of the person I flirt with, and that usually means I need to have a closer relationship (in friendship and trust) even if the flirting is not done for or leading toward a physical act.
I'm not even sure if that makes sense...
