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Originally Posted by stingc
Most (young) women are seriously insecure. If the guy didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't. Why would you get upset over your (possibly flawed) perception of someone else's enjoyment when it is completely under their control? Any guy knows what he likes a lot a better than you do, so it doesn't make very much sense for you to second-guess his decision.
Anyway, I doubt that your boyfriends all seemed perfect in every way while you were together. Why didn't you possibly wait for someone else to come along?
The real question was apparently not the one you explicitly asked. It seems more like you can't take a guy who looks at other girls unless they look like you (or maybe you don't want your boyfriend to look at anyone else at all  ). Sorry, but those are unreasonable expectations. For most people, beauty comes in many different forms. |
no,I never said that a man must only look at women who look like me or that he can't look/appreciate others. what I did said is that I want a man who makes me feel beautiful and special and like he prefers the size of my breasts,not one who acts like my breasts are some sort of
deformity that he's generously decided to overlook .Trust me,being flat out told how much better you'd look a cup size or two bigger does nothing to reassure you that a guy loves your breasts.
There's nothing wrong with having strong physical preferences, there is something wrong with hooking up with somebody knowing they doesn't possess those attributes and then blaming them because they don't.
Somehow, I don't think a woman telling her husband "I love your tiny penis but I'd love a big penis so much more" would play real well, nor would a woman out for an evening with hubby, sitting there openly eyeing men's crotches ,licking her lips and making speculative comments about how well hung they might be.
